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andrea tackach's avatar

Justin, I remember that student well, too. You were the kindest person he knew, and you always gave him the time of day when others gave up on him or put him in an unfair category. I am sure he remembers you. Let's hope that life gave him another chance. He was very lucky to have had that moment with you.

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Justin Deming's avatar

Thank you, Andrea. You know how much those words mean to me! And, in fairness, you were beside me every step of the way! We were the best team. I'm sure he remembers both of us, even if in a small way.

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Jimmy Doom's avatar

Bet ya a bunch he remembers you. I was my small school's Tre. I remember who cared.

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Justin Deming's avatar

Thanks, Jimmy. That means a lot. Sometimes these random exchanges and moments come back to me out of nowhere. Tre left a huge impact on my life, and I think about him often.

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Jimmy Doom's avatar

I hope you see him again or find out that he's doing well.

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Bill Adler's avatar

This is a very moving story. (I read Night years ago, and it still haunts me.)

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Justin Deming's avatar

Thank you, Bill. I think haunting is one of the best words to describe Night.

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Brendan Cahill's avatar

Above all else a teacher is present. That is all you gotta do sometimes man.

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Justin Deming's avatar

Very true, my friend! That is key.

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Kim Smyth's avatar

I’ve never heard of Night, but if it’s as bad as Tre’s story, I’m sure I don’t want to. I read Sleepers and felt guilty I was reading something so wrong and horrible…and true!

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Justin Deming's avatar

Thanks for reading, Kim.

Night is Elie Wiesel's account of surviving the concentration camps at Auschwitz-Birkenau. It's truly terrifying and horrific. I just looked up Sleepers and I don't think I'll be picking it up any time soon!

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Dascha Paylor 🇨🇦🍁🐻‍❄'s avatar

This is heartbreaking, but "Tre's" story is all too common. Wherever he is, I'm glad you, at least, made time and space for him, and hope he found peace and a better life.

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Justin Deming's avatar

It’s so true, Dascha. Many kids suffer the same fate. Thank you for the kind words! Likewise. Wherever he is, I hope he is okay.

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